End Up Where You Need to Be: Just Go

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Yup, it’s been a minute. I didn’t intend to take a break from blogging but maybe this post will be more impactful since it’s been a while. Maybe it’s where it needs to be timing-wise. Let me tell you something…I have no ability to plan. Seriously, I cannot plan ahead anymore than a week. Why? I don’t know exactly. I guess it’s because I just don’t know what I want anymore than a week before I start chasing what I want. I enjoy flying through life by the seat of my pants. I leap before I even look down. I am as close as one can get to being a professional procrastinator. The funny thing is, when I look at my life and realize that all of that is the case, I don’t want to change a thing. It’s worked. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of things in my life that I wish I hadn’t done, or that I wish I could change…but my life is amazing. I couldn’t ask for a better family, better friends, or a better…me. It’s easy to complain about the small things (like the people in the room next to me who like to party until 4 am on the weekends), but the big things are what define life, and my big things are exactly where I want them to be. I say all of this in relation to the quote. I have not gone where I intended because I never intend to go anywhere. That’s how I keep ending up exactly where I need to be. I’m not encouraging procrastination (unless that’s your thing), I’m just encouraging you not to worry. Whether you know where you’re going or not, you usually end up in the right place. Make the best of everything around you. Love the people in your life, enjoy the places you go, just choose to be happy and positive. Life is too short to micromanage everything in it and worry about it, so don’t. To end with another quote: “Destinations are where we begin again.” –Josh GrobanBelieve from The Polar Express

Destiny, Radio, Pro Bowl, Portland Trail Blazers, Star Wars, The Shining, Psych

My first ever radio show went well on Saturday!

Alright, now on to the negativity:

The NFC lost the Pro Bowl. Strike 1.

The Portland Trail Blazers lost AGAIN, this time to the PG Stephen Curry-less Golden State Warriors, in Portland. Strike 2.

Can you tell I’m having a tough time with the positivity today? Sports really make or break my day.

Also, I still don’t have a debit card because my bank screwed up. Strike 3.

Anything else?…

Well, I watched Star Wars Episode I: The Phantom Menace today. Or, part of it. The Pro Bowl put a hold on the movie. Then I finished it after the Pro Bowl. So, all of it. Anyway, I’ll let you guys be the judge of how positive watching Star Wars Episode I is.

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I watched Star Wars Episode VI: The Return of the Jedi yesterday. That was definitely a positive. I have a friend here who thinks that the Star Wars Prequel Trilogy is better than the Star Wars Original Trilogy. He is literally the ONLY person I have ever known who thinks that. I’m not exaggerating. He is the ONLY one. The Star Wars Original Trilogy features the top 2 movies of all-time, and 3 of the top 5 movies of all-time. The only movie from the Star Wars prequel trilogy that makes the top 10 movies of all-time is Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the Sith. Even Star Wars Episode III is only at #10. Make no mistake, my friend is WRONG. The Star Wars Original Trilogy is heads above the Star Wars Prequel Trilogy. But, it’s all Star Wars, so it’s all good.

I also watched The Shining over the weekend. Jack Nicholson is a great actor. No idea who the woman in The Shining is. The Shining definitely wasn’t as scary as I had been led to believe. It may be due to the fact that The Shining was made in the 80’s, so it was kind of cheesy with some of the editing. The Shining had a well-written story-line, though. Plus, now I get the references to The Shining in the “Hereeeeee’s Lassie!” episode of Psych.

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Speaking of Psych, I watched some Behind the Scenes footage while I was taking a break from my big INFO 1010 project. James Roday’s audition tape, writers’ commentaries on the pilot, and interviews with all of the main Psych cast members (James Roday, Dule Hill, Maggie Lawson, Timothy Omundson, Corbin Bernsen, and Kirstin Nelson) all included. EPIC!!! Did you know that the main writer behind Psych (Steve Franks) is 6’8″?! I’ve seen him standing next to the Psych cast members and I always thought he was tall, but GEEZ!!! 6’8″ is INSANE!!! He also is a member of the band “The Friendly Indians“, who performed the Psych theme song.

Just an FYI regarding my radio show: The show is called the Bleacher Bums. Me and two of my friends are said Bleacher Bums. We are on the air every Saturday from 3pm-4pm. Tune it for our Sports Talk at kxduradio.com

Is destiny Written in the Stars? Or, do you write your own destiny? It’s a matter of predetermination. I will say this much: nothing goes according to plan. It doesn’t matter if it’s your plan or nature’s plan for you. There will always be bumps in the road. The most important thing is to be yourself. Don’t ever change who you are just to fit a plan. Find a plan that aligns with who you are. I realize that I am being hypocritical as I say that because I’ve just recently come to realize that I shouldn’t be sweating the “mistakes” that I’ve made by being myself. I know that I still think about those “mistakes” because I can’t help but thinking that they were “mistakes” because of the end result. But, I followed my heart and that’s what gets me past those, and other moments of doubt. I just keep following my heart, and my brain aids if it is needed. That’s what I encourage all of you to do. We are not defined by what others think of our decisions, but rather, by what we think of our own decisions. It doesn’t matter if you feel your destiny is predetermined, or if you feel you are continuously shaping your destiny every second of your life. Why? Either way, you should be who you are. After all, only YOU can shape your own destiny.

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That’s all for TheHaysWay today, make sure to leave a comment on KXDU and the Bleacher Bums and/or on the NFL Pro Bowl and/or on the Portland Trail Blazers and the Golden State Warriors and/or on Star Wars Episode I: The Phantom Menace and/or on Star Wars Episode VI: The Return of the Jedi and/or on the Star Wars Prequel and Original Trilogies and/or on The Shining and/or on Psych and/or on destiny and/or on whatever is on your mind, along with a much-appreciated like. If you are not yet a follower, fulfill your destiny by becoming a follower. 🙂 Have a pleasant tomorrow.

Daily Update: June 29, 2016

“Setting a goal is not the main thing. It is deciding how you will go about achieving it and staying with that plan.” -Tom Landry, Former Dallas Cowboys Head Coach

Never give up on your goals. I love this quote for that reason. No goal is unattainable, and don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. No matter what happens on your road to achieving a goal, keep fighting. I mean that wholeheartedly. Even if unexpected events alter your plans, NEVER give up. Nothing can stop you from achieving what you want to achieve. If you put your mind and/or your heart into something, you WILL achieve that goal. My goal right now is to bring you all the daily NFL news, so I’m staying with it, and here it is:

  1. Indianapolis Colts QB Andrew Luck has become the highest-paid player in the National Football League. He signed a new six-year contract worth $140 million today, with $47 million guaranteed. This comes following his worst season in the league. Definitely an interesting time to give him this contract, but his previous seasons have given no reason to say he isn’t worth it. Plus, the Colts don’t currently have many players that are elite enough to give lots of money to, so why not?
  2. ‘All or Nothing’ is set to premiere on July 1. That’s right, just two days away. ‘All or Nothing’ is Amazon’s new version of ‘Hard Knocks’. The series follows the journey of the Arizona Cardinals during the 2015-16 season. There are eight, one-hour episodes in the series, and they will all be available to Amazon customers from July 1-August 31 on all Amazon platforms (Fire TV, their website, etc.).
  3. DE Cory Redding is retiring. He retires as a free agent following 13 seasons in the NFL. Redding spent last season with the Arizona Cardinals, the previous three seasons with the Indianapolis Colts, the two seasons prior with the Baltimore Ravens, the season before with the Seattle Seahawks, and the previous six seasons with the Detroit Lions.

That’s all for TheHaysWay today, make sure to leave a comment on the daily quote and/or the daily news, along with a much-appreciated like. Have a pleasant tomorrow.